This quiz will help test how compatible you and your partner's personalities are. You should each rate the truth of these 20 statements based on the following scale. Circle the number that reflects your feelings. Total your scores and check the interpretation following the quiz.
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We can communicate our innermost thoughts effectively. |
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We trust each other. |
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We agree on whose needs come first. |
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We have realistic expectations of each other and of ourselves. |
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Individual growth is important within our relationship. |
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We will go on as a couple even if our partner doesn't change.. |
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Our personal problems are discussed with each other first. |
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We both do our best to compromise. |
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We usually fight fairly. |
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We try not to be rigid or unyielding. |
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We keep any needs to be "perfect" in proper perspective. |
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We can balance the desire to be sociable with the need to be alone. |
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We both make friends and keep them. |
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Neither of us stays down or up for long periods. |
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We can tolerate the other's mood without being affected by it. |
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We can deal with disappointment and disillusionment. |
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Both of us can tolerate failure. |
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We can both express anger appropriately. |
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We are both assertive when necessary. |
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We agree on how our personal surroundings are kept. |
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Your Total Points |
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Ask your partner to take this test too. You may have a one-sided view of a "perfect" relationship. Even if you scored high on this assessment, be aware of areas where you can still improve.
