For each statement, indicate how characteristic or descriptive it is for you by selecting the appropriate response.


1. Most people seem to be more aggressive and assertive than I am.


2. I have hesitated to make or accept dates because of shyness.


3. When the food served at a restaurant is not done to my satisfaction, I complain about it to the waiter or waitress.


4. I am careful to avoid hurting other people's feelings, even when I feel that I have been injured.


5. If a salesman has gone to considerable trouble to show me merchandise that is not quite suitable, I have a difficult time saying no.


6. When I am asked to do something, I insist upon knowing why.


7. There are times when I look for a good, vigorous argument.


8. I strive to get ahead as well as most people in my position.


9. To be honest, people often take advantage of me.


10. I enjoy starting conversations with new acquaintances and strangers.


11. I often don't know what to say to attractive persons of the opposite sex.


12. I hesitate to make phone calls to business establishments and institutions.


13. I would rather apply for a job or for admission to a college by writing letters than by going through with personal interviews.


14. I find it embarrassing to return merchandise.


15. If a close and respected relative were annoying me, I would smother my feelings rather than express my annoyance.


16. I have avoided asking questions for fear of sounding stupid.


17. During an argument I am sometimes afraid that I will get so upset that I will shake all over.


18. If a famed and respected lecturer makes a statement that I think is incorrect, I will have the audience hear my point of view as well.


19. I avoid arguing over prices with clerks and salespeople.


20. When I have done something important or worthwhile, I manage to let others know about it.


21. I am open and frank about my feelings.


22. If someone has been spreading false and bad stories about me, I see that person as soon as possible to have a talk about it.


23. I often have a hard time saying no.


24. I tend to bottle up my emotions rather than make a scene.


25. I complain about poor service in a restaurant or elsewhere.


26. When I am given a compliment, I sometimes just don't know what to say.


27. If a couple near me in a theater or at a lecture were conversing rather loudly, I would ask them to be quiet or to take their conversation elsewhere.


28. Anyone attempting to push ahead of me in a line is in for a good battle.


29. I am quick to express an opinion.


30. There are times when I just can't say anything.


Your Score

Scoring

Compare your score to the ratings in the table below.

-29   Significantly below average
-15   Somewhat below average
0   Average
+15   Somewhat above average
+29   Significantly above average
SOURCE: Rathus, S. A. 1973. A 30-item schedule for assessing assertive behavior. Behavior Therapy 4: 398-406. Copyright © 1973 by the Association for Advancement of Behavior Therapy. Reprinted by permission of the publisher.